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Good Bye,my friend, Rana……………

April 28, 2021 10:17 am Published by Leave your thoughts

25th April ’21,Sunday, will always remain a key day in my life. On this day, I lost my life-long friend of 46 years, Deepak Ranjan Gupta (Rana) to COVID-19. We met in Vizag in the 1970s when he used to come on behalf of his company M/s Kusum Products from Kolkata. We met through a common friend, Arun, and then it was mutual chemistry. We became such good friends, that Rana brought his wife, Noton to Vizag on his next trip. Rana and Noton were childhood friends, who fell in love and married and lived 2 buildings away from each... View Article


This cannot be the new normal

April 23, 2021 5:59 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Domination of political administration in our daily lives, perhaps was never felt by the society which I belong or belonged so far as I am feeling now. This seems to have crossed all limits of social, community or peaceful living. As money is flowing, from all kinds of ways, it is a myth to ask for “reforms” in this space. The options available it seems if we don’t like what is going on is : -To Die -Get into the hills never to come back again -Live with sleeping tablets or equivalent -Meditating – Watching what is happening around and... View Article


Transitioning to the next stage of life……..acceptance !!!

April 14, 2021 8:48 am Published by Leave your thoughts

When creative people age, they face a challenge. For singers, artistes, dancers, age is a factor in reducing their activities and hence their popularity somewhat diminishes which leads to a mental challenge. Creative thinkers, philosophers, visualizers, architects and intellectuals feel lost unless they take refuge in spirituality. Everyone must realise ageing is a difficult time for them. If you have led a normal life, as in, going to office, work, retirement — its perhaps easier, as retirement comes as a package for the transition. But “thinkers” and “intellectuals”, have no retirement age, yet their mind space turns less specific and... View Article


CIVIL SOCIETY: PLEASE WAKE UP !!!

April 2, 2021 5:32 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Elections to 5 states in India is on. These are supposedly for local state Assembly constituencies. West Bengal, my home state, is one such. Over the last few months and more so, there is pandemonium around. The political sensitiveness of the State, gives rise to all kind of activities, disruptions, deliberations, which appear highly polarised and is disturbing. The poor COVID-19, has been pushed to the background and people for whom the vote is sought is under attack from all corners. Bengal was always politically sensitive. Very charged environment prevailed, when it came to elections. But there was an environment... View Article


Move on,when your time is up……………

March 19, 2021 4:51 am Published by Leave your thoughts

My father was a government officer under the administrative service and his retirement age was 58. He was pretty young when he retired. He was already into his writings and got involved in it. These days, people retire mostly at 65. A clean 7 years more. What about people like me who have invested last 30+ years into building, creating, developing, failing, re-building, growing, stabilising……an enterprise, in a truthful, professional manner and given it all you could. The enterprise over all these years has grown manifold and diverse. More difficult still in my case, as both my sons, joined my... View Article


Contradictions of the mind,as we grow………..

March 7, 2021 7:15 am Published by Leave your thoughts

As a student of Behaviourial Science and its natural development with age and time, I have noticed different people respond to different situations differently. At times, they do realise through their intelligence and wisdom, that their acts make no sense, but the society has kept them shackled for so many years, that to break free from that shackle is an upheaval task. Luckily for me, I have had phenomenal freedom of mind and expression and have continued to remain free from any such bondages like parental, cultural, social. We are being constantly told with a dash of fright that if... View Article


Keep discovering yourself…………….

February 26, 2021 9:08 am Published by Leave your thoughts

When you reach an age or time, when you believe you have been successful and completed your journey in this life, what do you do then? These are among many questions, I am struggling to find answers to these days. Having come to my son’s place in Dubai about 6 months back, I have been thinking whether I should make this place as my base going forward? Moment I think of that, several issues come to mind. If I start living in Dubai, then my life, my story, my eco-system of 40+ years of my professional journey, my companies, my... View Article